– Friedrich Nietzsche
The healthy masculine energy is stable and more predictable. Its strengths are willpower, clarity and focus. The masculine energy likes to create structures and rules. It is knowledge whereas the feminine is knowing. The knowledge is static with precise dimensions and exact design. He is the master of planning and laying out the guidelines that are based on logic and experience. The masculine energy is protective. He is aligned with his emotions; he fights for what he loves and finds the ways to achieve his goals.
Nowadays, men are often faced with unrealistic and stereotypical portrayals of men in Media and the Culture. While women have become stronger and more independent, men are struggling with their own masculine balance.
Nearly 1 in 10 men experience depression, anxiety or obsessive-compulsive disorder. About 10% to 17% of men will develop major depression at some point in their lives.
Man-stereotype boxing that there is only one real way to be a man, slogans such as “man up”, “don’t be a pussy” amongst others have caused a huge distortion in a man’s psyche.
Vulnerability and Intimacy are another big topic. Men have often been brought up not to show emotions, to always remain the strong sex. As a result, they are struggling to deal with their own emotions as they haven’t been taught how to express them in a healthy and authentic way. On the other hand, the impropriety industry has desensitized many men when it comes to their sex life. Instead of feeling, being present and in tune with their woman during the act they focus on performance only.
When men didn’t have a strong masculine role model growing up, they can struggle with their own masculine identity. Few have an outlet to express what is truly going on in their life as even amongst men circles there is peer pressure to remain strong and manly.
I’ll guide you straight to the core of the problem, provide you with a safe space to finally open up where you couldn’t before and take back control of your life.
It’s time to not only own your masculine power, but to multiply it with:
Much love,
Anita Milovac
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